Fall harvest celebrations were traditionally held to express thanksgiving for the abundance of plenty that could be stored up and lived on during the scarcity of the cold and dark winter. Historically winter’s survival was dependent upon the harvest. A poor or lost harvest meant certain desperation as concern for survival was indeed a real and pressing problem.
Winter is a time for living off of the harvest. In modern life, full dependence upon what can be harvested and stored is uncommon as food is pretty much accessible year-round. If you look at the harvest as the results you have in the various aspects or fields of your life; however, the harvest does indeed once again become important to store up in order to survive life’s winter seasons.
What do you do if you find that your time of plenty was not so plentiful? How do you live off the harvest when all you can see are lost hopes and dreams? What do you do when your daily life has become a struggle just to survive?
Being caught up in the need to survive–even on an emotional level–can lead you to living in a suspended “crisis mode” known as “fight-or-flight”. This primitive protective mechanism was important when confronted with a saber tooth tiger that required actual physical activity in order to survive. However, today’s saber tooth tigers and failed harvests are oftentimes psychological stressors such as missing a deadline, traffic delays, financial issues, and such that do not require actual physical activity to escape immediate danger. Nevertheless, the same “crisis mode” of “fight-or-flight” gets activated.
What you may not realize is that constant stress can cause you to actually get stuck in this “crisis mode” and start living everyday in mere survival. When you get stuck in living in survival your decisions become impacted negatively. Your ability to cultivate the seeds needed to have a good harvest is inhibited. In essence, you get stuck living in the winter with no harvest stored in the barn to sustain you. Excessive stress and a life lived with continual short-term emergencies lead to becoming overwhelmed.
So how do you change out of this “survival mode” and back into cultivating positive attitudes and beliefs? How do you move away from focusing on just the short-term survival and start focusing on long-term results?
- Increase your physical activity. On the surface you may think, “How does exercise change my world?” It gives your body a chance to engage in the “fight-or-flight” and burn off all the excess stress hormones. This will lead to a clearer mind and more introspective thinking. Even 10 minutes of activity will help regain clarity.
- Change your environment. What you surround yourself with will impact your stress level. Changing your physical environment to reflect a more peaceful reality is essential. Sometimes this may be getting out of toxic relationship or leaving a stress-filled job. Changing your spiritual environment by seeking an understanding of your God-given purpose and direction will change your focus from just surviving to long-term thriving. Spending time in prayer will help to bring peace and clarity. Resolving to release negative feelings of worthlessness, shame, and guilt will help to build a more positive environment.
- Change your perceptions. One of the easiest and effective ways to change your perceptions is to use affirmations. Affirmations have the ability to change your beliefs through continuous repetition by replacing the negative thoughts with more positive ones. Focusing on affirmations can also help to quiet the mind which is key to moving beyond the anxiety and fears into a place of clearer understanding, truth, and love.
What ways will you start storing your harvests in order to survive the winters of your life?
Until we meet again, may God hold you in the palm of His hand.
~ An Old Irish Blessing
Marian (McCoy) Boveri
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